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Today I want to continue our conversation about desire. I want to talk about another reason why we dampen our success expectancy. We’ve been taught that our future success is based on how successful we have been in the past. The thing is, if most of us looked to our past to determine our future success, we would not have any hope of creating the desires of our hearts because our brain is going to tell us every little detail about our failures. 

Can I tell you something? Our past has absolutely nothing to do with our ability to create in the future. We can create desire, whatever it is that we want. Lean into it. It’s possible. Don’t allow your brain to give you probability thoughts. When our brain is saying NO, we get to say YAS!

Listen in as we unpack this concept.

 

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