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If we want to attract a thing into our lives, it’s first necessary to have a deep, burning desire for it. Desire is a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen. It is the mental state that is needed to cultivate anything for us at all. Such as those big goals that we have. 

We may believe that it’s only natural for people to want all manner of things, but often the concentrated mental effort needed to put into motion the forces of circumstance to bring the desired goal/dream from the mental realm into the physical is not there. This lack of desire is true for WOC. Desire is the one emotion that scares the shit out of us. And today, I want to talk about why that is. 

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EP. 27 An interview with Dr. Koritha Mitchell, author of From Slave Cabins to the White House

Book – From Slave Cabins to the White House: Homemade Citizenship in African American Culture

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She will learn how not to let outside influences impact how she thinks and feels about herself or how she shows up in the world.

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